By Burnett Munthali

In a world where opportunities often seem scarce, one story serves as a powerful reminder of the transformative power of initiative and self-determination. It’s the story of a young woman named Tamala, whose journey reflects a critical lesson: don’t wait for the government—or anyone else—to make your life successful.

Her father, a firm believer in hard work and seizing opportunities, has always told her that South Africa is a land where success is possible for those who actively pursue it. He speaks from experience, having charted his own path in similar circumstances.

Years ago, Tamala’s father found himself in South Africa, searching for opportunities to better his life. Determined to acquire computer skills, he approached a company with a simple offer: he would work for free if they allowed him to learn. The company agreed, giving him access to their computer training program.

In exchange, he volunteered to help in their computer repair workshop during his free time. His dedication did not go unnoticed. Upon completing the course, the company offered him a part-time job, setting him on a path of growth and success.

This experience became the cornerstone of the advice he gave his daughter: Life rewards those who take bold steps and create their own opportunities.

When Tamala traveled to South Africa, her father reminded her that courage and initiative would be her greatest assets. On Tuesday, she took her first step.

After visiting Home Affairs to apply for her ID, she and her mother stopped by a shop to buy a nail makeup kit. In that moment, Tamala saw an opportunity and took a bold chance. She asked the shop manager if there were any job openings. Though she wasn’t sure what to expect, she left her contact details with the manager.

To her surprise, she received a call the very next day. The shop offered her a position, and today, Tamala is on her way to start her first job in South Africa.

Tamala’s story is a testament to the importance of a proactive mindset. It underscores a crucial truth: waiting for government intervention, parental support, or a lucky break is not a sustainable path to success. True progress begins when individuals take responsibility for their own lives and actively seek opportunities.

Her father’s words echo loudly: Life is what you make of it. While external factors can play a role in shaping one’s journey, the ultimate driver of success is personal determination.

A Call to Action

Tamala’s experience is an inspiration for anyone feeling stuck or uncertain about the future. It is a reminder that success doesn’t always come to those who wait—it comes to those who act.

To the unemployed, the discouraged, and the dreamers: don’t wait for circumstances to change. Take the first step, however small it may seem. Ask for opportunities, learn new skills, and refuse to be paralyzed by fear or doubt.

Governments may set the stage, and others may offer support, but the main actor in your story is you. Like Tamala, choose courage over hesitation, and watch as the doors of opportunity open before you.

In the end, success is not handed out—it is earned. As Tamala’s father so wisely said, “Don’t expect someone else to make your life move forward. It’s always you who must take that step.”